You might have heard about the famous INFJ/INTJ stare or it may be the first time you’re encountering the term, but either way, it is something that puzzles,. They Are Seen As Intimidating Sometimes people can just not handle a strong female and will be very intimidated by the way that sigma females reject conventions and speak the truth. Sigma females, just like their male counterparts, are pretty rebellious people! They enjoy stirring things up a bit, making other people question social conventions. I saw your post about dating an ENFJ woman. I didn't date one but I'm pretty sure my mom is ENFJ. It was always an experience of being dragged around her social affairs and my perfecting my self-preserving walls without making them look intimidating. Imagine them as cushioned walls if you don't mind. Most INTJ women tend to have a majority of male friends, and very little, if any, female friends. Females and males are often intimidated by an INTJ woman and the presence they emit. This is because of an INTJ's blunt, no-nonsense attitude or the fact that an INTJ will challenge authority if they believe they are wrong. The same applies to INTJ personality types. If INTJs are perceived as intimidating, cold, and aloof, they don't mind these stereotypes if these attributes make them appear attractive, empowered, and mysterious. And whatever perception you have of INTJs, you can never be sure that it hasn't been carefully manufactured for public consumption.